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Did you know that 92% of chronic pain sufferers say "It's important to keep fighting this pain."?
That is our natural response to pain. We struggle against it and grasp for solutions far too long.

This post will introduce you to a proven method of dealing with the suffering and stresses caused by episodic or chronic pain which has shown positive results.

This information is based on research carried out by Kevin Vowles, Ph.D., at the Association for Contextual Research in Bath, England, which is quoted widely in other publications.

Do you fight your pain? Dr. Vowles notes that struggling with pain is the single best predictor of more pain in the future, along with further struggles, a sense of failure, and lost freedom and opportunity. There is a definite cycle here, a downward spiral that you yourself may have encountered from time to time.

He advocates deliberately getting off this treadmill, likely with some professional assistance, and setting off in a new direction which involves
  1. Acceptance
  2. Mindfulness
  3. Values-based Action

Let's examine each one of these components. Acceptance is the opposite of struggle. It means that you come to understand that the emotions that come with your migraine pain are transitory, and that you just notice them as if you were a third party. In a similar way, the thoughts that come up during an attack are merely thoughts and they will subside; they are not your direct experience of the pain. Accepting your pain also means abandoning heroic measures to control it.
Mindfulness is a way of thinking which concentrates on the here and now, not the past and future.
The final element, Values-based Action, asks you to re-direct your focus. Rather than trying to eliminate unwanted experiences as before, you ask yourself what really matters in the main areas of your life. Your future will consist of actions which contribute to priorities which are grounded in these values.  
Does Dr. Vowles' process, also known as Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) therapy, work? 3 years after his study group began ACT, here are the outcomes
  • almost half of the participants had achieved acceptance
  • 80% were acting in accordance with their values
  • 60% reported pain reductions
  • 40% reported less pain-related anxiety

The evidence is clear. As a long term migraine sufferer, you can benefit greatly by 'giving up your struggle' and embracing the idea of accepting of your pain. Many barriers will come down for you as a result. 

Let me coach you through this process and guide you towards a rich, rewarding life based on what you really want.
 
We all know that the main attribute of a migraine is pain. A close second to that is stress - stress caused by that attack and stress caused by being a migraine sufferer in general. Do you suffer from migraine-related stress?

Now there is promise to relieve migraine stress through the science of Positive Psychology. Read to the end of this message for a great offer to introduce you to positive psychology in the coming months!
The distress caused by a migraine attack can be summed up in a few short phrases:
  • "Why me?"
  • "Why now?" (You had plans for today, and you wanted to be at your best)
  • "Not again!" 

If you are an episodic or chronic migraineur, you're familiar with the inward stress of not living up to your own standards because of your illness. You're very aware of the impact on others - you don't want to let them down, but you feel that you do. And your mind may be going into overdrive as you worry about the impact on your future if you can't resolve the migraine question.

There is an important distinction here. None of this is the migraine pain itself; it is the way you (and your brain in particular) are responding to the pain.


Now...you can start to climb towards the light.

Positive psychology research has produced a number of exciting discoveries, such as
  • Cultivating positive emotions, like gratitude and optimism, can act as an antidote to stress and improve health in general.
  • Appreciating and utilizing your strengths and personal talents can lead to great changes in how you perceive your circumstances in life. 
  • Getting involved - engagement - with people, work or hobbies is very important in relieving stress.
  • Being in the moment and savoring what happens now has wonderful benefits.


 I am excited to tell you about a a series of teleseminars called 

                            Positive Psychology for Migraine Sufferers

which will begin in October. 
If you contact me now and sign up before the end of August,
you can attend these sessions for 50% off the regular price!

Climb those stairs with me...